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singkrenisite

"Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls don’t have their first orgasms until their late teens, twenties, or beyond. Teenage girls widely agree that they get the message loud and clear that masturbation is something boys do, but girls don’t, can’t, or shouldn’t. The cultural focus on intercourse tells young women to expect they’ll begin to experience sexual pleasure once they have sex with a man (whether or not they’re even interested in sex with men). Nearly all teen boys, on the other hand, experience sexual pleasure long before they get their hands—or other body parts—into a partner’s pants. Despite the massive advances in women’s equality, young women’s sexuality is stuck in a surprising paradox. Young women are sold provocative clothes but aren’t taught where to find their own clitoris. Many girls give their boyfriends oral sex, but are too uncomfortable with their own bodies to allow the guys to return the favor. It’s still a radical act to say that women need and deserve access to information about their own sexual pleasure—not just about the risks and negative consequences of sex."

Dorian Solot, I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide. (via feministhistorian)

OH MY GOD LADIES JUST RUB ONE IN AND CALL IT A DAY, GAWD. XD

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(Source: lipsredasroses, via rematiration)

"No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor."

Betty Friedan (via petitefeministe)

(via petitefeministe-deactivated2013)

dressupbox:

HERE IS A LIST OF LIES YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD BY MY SILENCE: four ladies reclaiming our orgasms.

“if you have a problem picturing me having an orgasm then you need to re-examine your reaction to babysitters home alone disc 64, because the only difference i see is that movie lied to you and we are telling the truth.”

by the YOUTH SPEAKS SEATTLE 2010 SLAM TEAM LADIES. left to right: Claire Joko-Fujimoto, Ema McClean-Riggs, Katie McCorkell, Shanay Salas (myself). performance at brave new voices 2010 in los angeles, california.

I LOVE THESE WOMEN. writing, collaborating, crying, laughing, screaming, spitting, creating this piece of art has been one of the most fundamental parts of my development as a sexual abuse survivor + sex positive lady. youth speaks seattle you flipped my life upside down in the best way possible. <3